Posts Tagged ‘success’

December 28 2011

Grandmom’s Cookies and Masterchef Secrets of Newmarket

Grandmom’s cookies and Masterchef Secrets of Newmarket

Do you make cookies, and others delicious sweet things for your grand children, your children, and even for yourself?

HOW A STORY OF COOKIES CAN REVEAL YOU TO YOURSELF

I love to do cooking for my friends, my family, and curiously, I don’t really do it for myself, or just do it but with less attention and intention!

And I know we all do those kind of things, it just scratched on my noose while I was watching one of my fav’ TV shows the other day: “Master Chef” :

Frederic Anton, Master Chef Jury

Here is the interesting story, that made me deeply think about my whys in my life, and my network marketing activities:

For those Moms of you, and grand Moms who don’t know yet that show, “Master Chef” is a kind of contest, which is filmed for the TV, it runs on 10 weeks challenges,

The competitors are anyone who is PASSIONATE with cooking and want to bound with this contest to a new life ,living his/her cooking passion.

Out of 26.000 first candidates, 30 are selected for the TV shows challenges, and then 20 are kept after the first week of tests, and then 2 of them are eliminated each week, on the all week of challenges.

Last week, I was watching a recording of the Finale, the 2 best candidates still in the competition, Elizabeth and Xavier. One of the 3 last challenges was to prepare a complete 3 courses gastronomic diner for 30 persons, as if they are cooking in their restaurant.

For help, the 2 candidates were given each 4 “kitchen-commis” , who were the 8 others best “cook” of the show, that competed with them.

So they had to choose one by one the persons who would compose their team, and then give them each the tasks to take care of to achieve the required challenge.

My Tilting point jumped to my face when one of the commis was interviewed, during the test, to comment was was going on on her team side, and she said” ho, I’m so proud to be choosen by Kathy for this finale, I’m giving my best to help her to win, I feel so responsible for her to win, that I do better than I would do for me! Promess!…..”

That young lady was eliminated during the half finale, the week before.

What that yelled at me ?

What hurted so much my ears ?

Do I do as good when it’s for me as when it’s for others ?

The answer that I had put a big light on WHY I had been struggling so long in my businesses, to get results, and even thou I get results, they are still too small for my dreams.

What motivates us ?

Why do we do so much less for ourself than for others ? Aren’t we valuable and deserving too?

I realize that I allow to myself lazyness and « just sufficient » action, to get results, and this attitude leads me to same level results, even thou I believe I am motivated to earn 10 times what I actually earn for now… what a joke, hahaha !

So the motivation is here, but the reasons to be lazy , or make less efforts are stronger….

mmmm. do I have a law self-esteem….?

I decide I would do as if I was really giving my best, for another person, as that’s how it seems to work with human nature. But this time, the other one was THE PERSON THAT I WANT TO BECOME.

Imagine your boss gives you $ 5000 per week to do the tasks that he is supposed to do for starting his online business and put it on hight speed for the next years…

Wouldn’t you spend hours and overcome your fears of anything to get those $5000 by each Saturday , miss nights out with your girl friends, skip a surf session, and stay in your home office instead , all that to do what it takes ? Eliminate interruptions, distractions of your life to achieve the goal determined by your boss ? because you want him to pay you for providing honestly the results he demands.

Asking myself those questions, my answer was « YES I of course I would freaking do it! »

Then what is the smart way to act on this now : be my own boss, and work for this boss !

Thank you Master Chef ! You kicked my but to « just do it » !

Not only I get to watch one of my favorites shows on the TV, but also I get to be conscious about how my attitude needs to switch in order to walk on the road to success.

here is the video of Elizabeth during the selections , from 1000s of candidates.

Pas vu à la TV : la sélection d’Elisabeth !

To all the Moms , Grand Moms, Aunties , who want to succeed in working at home, make a great retirement to spend time cooking for your family and kids, have fun doing what you love , and time for it, that is my recipe of the day :

1- be as demanding for yourself as you are for others,
2- decide today that you have to adopt a discipline for that,
3- make it easier and do-able by choosing the right means and tools for your home business : watch that.
4- Do it !

The 21 selected candidates of the 2011 contest for Master Chef.

PS . Grandmoms, next time you start making cookies, or cook for your kids , think about making for them the same as YOU WOULD DO FOR YOU ! You get to see what you value yourself at.

Now, if you like cookies, and my post as well, “like it , tweet it” , and also drop a comment on Facebook,

e-mail me at bricha99@gmail.com

and skype me at brigittecharlon

TELL ME HOW THIS HELPS YOU!

If you don’t want more, DO NOTHING, and stay poor.

And BTW, the winner of Master Chef 2011 is Elizabeth, and with her 100.000 Euros, she wants to create a Patisserie-Salon-de-The , where she’ll make….cookies !

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November 22 2010

VIDEO TIPS SERIES #14 : How to Get What You Really Want

The majority of you, my friends and marketers, come along with that same big question : how do I get what I want, as it seems something’s stopping me to succeed all the time ?

We’ll see today 3 simple steps to put you in the process of INEVITABLY get what you want :

1-Know what you want, be conscious of what it is, define it.

I noticed often when I ask you « what do you really want ? »

That your answer is not saying really what you want, but want you think you want.

Some of you don’t even know what they want, thinking they know.

The typical examples are : I want money, and I want to be free. That’s why I gave this name to my blog . So : it does not tell me : what is money for you, who will you be , how will you feel when you have money, what will you do ?

What means being free to you ? Having more time, having freedom to buy what you want without counting, never stress again about the future, or simply be in peace in your mind ?

The answers to those questions define what it is that you want.

You need a define purpose to know where to start at to reach it.You cannot make a plan for a destination that you don’t know.

2-Find out what prevents you from getting it :

what is the attitude that attracts to you the result that’s not what you want.

We speak here of what is preventing you from taking action, when you made the decision to do what’s needed to succeed.

That’s a fear , which you have to find out. What are you avoiding ? Which pain is there in the task that you should be making now ?

3- Adopt an opposite attitude to the one that produces the opposite of what you want.

So You’ve found what is that stops you from taking action.

Now, instead of trying to find How can I avoid doing that painful task ? –ie avoid the pain- ask yourself :

If I don’t take action now, what will that ultimately cost me, and so what is the best that I can do to afford the price ?

May be the price of doing the task is more affordable for you, or another solution could be found ?

So, you effectively use the pain, the fear, and they will be your friends, they’ll serve you.

If you want to know how I got what I wanted, how I implemented those advices here, ask me in a comment here, skype me, message me on my FaceBook Fan Page

November 16 2010

VIDEO-TIP SERIES #12 . One Thing To Do Today, To Be a Better Marketer: Plug into Webinars

This is one of the success rule, a part of your gameplan, that you have to follow, if you really are serious about building a profitable business. Be up-to-date on the always changing internet land.

You would be crazy not to do it, as it is FREE training from the top leaders in your industry, plus it is a FREE recruiting tool for your prospects .

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You want to get this information and updated techniques , secrets, methods, that top earners implement in their business to build huge teams and generate many quality leads and sponsor more reps.

So don’t let your competition put a leg on you , and take the habit of saving dates and times in your calendar to attend 2 webinars or broadcasts weekly, 3 maximum.

Be careful with the pitfall of « training addiction » , as there are so many interesting and free conferences daily online that you are offered.
I myself tend to select too many, and then I end up finish my marketing tasks late at night, which is not good. Well at least I don’t delay them to the day after, but it’s not such an excellent work.

So no more than 3 webinars a week, and keep implementing. Keep action, and focus on money-making-activities : MMAs !

Yesterday you watched my video about what is a system.
Today, following that, there is a gift for you :
a webinar, about Which Internet Marketing System is the best for you, to use in your business system.

And I recommend that you choose this weekly training webinar- a different topic each week- to place in your WMO : Weekly Method of Operations.

Then the 2 others that you’ll choose will be :
one : a live presentation for your primary business,

and 2 : a free training by a tribe leader that you follow in FaceBook.

Now, here is the link that I want you to click and register to that webinar :
https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/516850507

After 3 years of trying all the marketing system out there I am going to review them and give you a good perspective on which one is the best fit for you and your business… We are going to reveal all the benefits and downfalls of each popular marketing system on the Net. See you at 8pm EST Thursday Night!
Mike Hobbs.

Get organized, take you calendars, write and do, and skype me after this webinar, and go HERE for more.

To YOUR success and HAPPINESS.
Brigitte

April 26 2010

Design your life by designing your business and home environment: some Feng Shui powerful principles. part2

You want that your personal image shines, you want to elevate your relationship, you want to feel great , you want abundance flows, so just implement those next simple tips , creating an environment that exudes love, abundance, success, peace and happiness…..

11- Choose a color that you love to paint your bedroom, but not white, and a stimulating color for your office, but not bright-red!

12- The furniture has to be with curved edges, not pointed and sharp corners. If so, soften the edges with fabrics or runners.
In a meeting in some one else’s office, avoid sitting face to a corner of the table or the desk.

13- Keep as much as possible healthy plants in your home, that helps to circulate the energy. Be sure to have plants near your computer and TV screens.

14- Make sure that all the plumbing throughout your home and office is working perfectly. Nothing leaky or running water…If water leaks from ceiling, fix it immediately

15- Make sure all light bulbs are in working order in all rooms, and that each room has the proper lightning. bright enough. Place mirrors on walls where they can multiply the light in a dark room.

16.- Place mirrors so that the tallest person in the house can see his/her entire head. Hang artwork around your home and office, that you love: it really impacts you on a subconscious level, which is more powerful than the conscious on

17- Others things you love are what you want to surround yourself with, , as well as items that represent health and vitality. The Feng Shui color for good health is yellow. Pets also are great energy enhancers to have around the home.

18- The different rooms of the house need to be painted with different colors, so that the energy flows easy. It creates feelings of starkness and depression when all the room are white or beige or even the same color.

19- Get rid of : the microwave – it kills the nutrients in food, + re-mix them in toxic molecules- never put baby food to warm in the microwave, it’s cancerogene , through proteines de-structured – also get rid of all clutter in your living spaces, all clutter in your life, and all dirty and dusty things around you. ….even people like that….

20- Accept yourself , love yourself as you are. Be grateful for what you have. Whatch your thoughs. Focus on beauty, harmony, see them everywhere, show them everywhere. What you focus on expands….

And this is a subject for an other article soon….. ( focus, thoughts, expansion…yahoo!)

February 11 2010

SECRETS TO GROW YOUR BUSINESS WITH SUCCESS Part2

Have you had success in applying the business secrets in the part 1 of this report ? If you did the exercise described , your answer is positive today !
And you are ready for the main course now : realizing all the conditions which make you reach massive success, setting the mindset that you must have, as an entrepreneur and a leader, and implementing those techniques right away with simple exercises which i give you at the end of this second part.

1- Do what you Love , or don’t do it. If you cannot do 100% what you love, you’ll need to learn to love what you do.

In order to make money, that first condition is mandatory : you need to have a passion, to have a purpose, in order to have prosperity.
Many people do what they love, but they still struggle to have prosperity. They miss their purpose, their why.
If you want to go somewhere, you need to set your mind up : where do you want to go, and what are you ready to do in order to get there. If you don’t love the way you walk in your business, arrange things to be able to love it, or change your way, but keep doing steps and enjoy the journey.

2- Review and make crystal clear your vision :

One of the reasons many entrepreneurs fail , or struggle a lot, is that they do not know clearly what they want their business to look like.

You already have your goals, plans and strategies set, and this is what you can use to clarify your vision, and give you the big picture of where you want to be in the future.
You probably know some of the techniques used to make that vision a magnet that pulls you to its manifestation : make a vision board, write on cards and stick them anyplace you look at many times daily, etc…
Don’t forget, its very important to have that vision not only crystal clear, but also big enough ! Big enough to blow yourself out, to get you out of your comfort zone, and believe that you can do it , what ever….. You want to put in front of your eyes so many carrots that you’ll starve enough to do what ever it takes , you’ll dream of it at night, you jump out of the bed with a smile every morning for that.

3 –To grow your business, you have to grow yourself first, be yourself, and be unique.

Being unique will eliminate competition. This is a strategy that we’ll be studying and developing when we speak about branding and marketing.
For now , you want to go on the previous concept, and be very clear as well on what you want your business to be like, so you will attract the customers who are perfect for your business. Love your business, make it look and be like what you love , and people will love to be your business customers.
In order to do this, you want first to grow yourself, learn everyday, work on being better at anything that you want to be better, and that you need to be better at.
Successful people have been observed as doing this all their life : leaders read at least one book weekly, 30 min to one hour daily, they meditate, and have a healthy lifestyle.

Here are the exercises that you can do, to implement now those three important points in order to grow your business with success :take a sheet of paper, brainstorm and write down :

1- If you are not yet doing what you love, there are only 2 solutions to that : love what you do, or change how you do it to love it the new way.
Choose the solution that your FEEL is right for you, like find ways to enjoy what you do, or find the conditions that you know you are happy with, and re-create them.

2- Make this second brainstorm and writing down , it can take just five minutes :
imagine you are starting a all new way of doing your business, and you are describing to your spouse what it will look like completely ideally : be very detailed, and use the present tense. Then read at loud voice and feel it .

3- Find as many ways as you can to LEARN every single day, take notes, AND implement what you learned within the next hours of your day. That’s how it works : learning, speed of implementation.
If you want to know the best of the best ways , the top earners techniques and strategies, the only secret you have to know if only one, if you look for a place to have all the tools to be successful, following this powerful method, visit now ( not tomorrow, NOW)

www.iLearningGlobal.biz/itopearnersecrets

February 1 2010

SECRETS TO GROW YOUR BUSINESS WITH SUCCESS Part1

The 3Fs : Focus and Feelings determine your Future

We enter our second month of our best year ever : 2010, and you must have now your goals written down, your strategies planed, and implementation started!

On your way to grow your business, like many entrepreneurs, you face challenges: not only, the one to focus on your goal, your vision, but also the one to focus on the wrong thing, the things you don’t want, trying to avoid them!
That leads you to anger, frustration, and worse, it keeps you stuck there!

This is the reason why many entrepreneurs fail: they focus on what they don’t want, what need to be “fixed” , what needs to change. And you know that what you put your attention on grow stronger in your life.
And the more you feel it, the more it manifests.
Well, we never repeat enough those principles, the law of attraction.

So your Future is determined by: what you Focus on, what you Feel , as you focus on this, I call that the rule of the 3Fs.

How can you shift your focus? Several tools and techniques, which are tought in self-development courses , like the iLearning Global products, but today I want to give you some tips to help you start focusing, and focus on the right things.

The first one is: create your strategic plan, print it on a card, and keep it handy, as a permanent reminder with you. It will help to maintain the right focus and right feelings.

Second tip : a little but powerful exercice, on a simple sheet of paper.
On one side of the page, write down everything that’s wrong about an area you’re concerned with. On the other side, write down the solution , or what would make the wrong become right.
For instance: “ I’m often overwhelmed with my tasks” on one side, can become, on the other side “I’m always organized with my tasks” and you visualize and feel this desired outcome.

If you do this exercise each time you see that you go away from focusing, you’ll start to really attract your future success.

This works for entrepreneurs who grow their business, as well as for your personal life, in all areas of growth and improvement.

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